Good point: consciously trying things comes from high motive and leads to patterns and eventually success
When we learn a martial art, or ballet, or gymnastics, or soccer … we consciously practice movements in a deliberate way, repeatedly. By conscious, repeated practice, we become good at those movements.
Our entire lives are like this, but we’re often less conscious of the practice.
What if, instead, we practiced consciously, deliberately, and became good at the things we really want to be good at?